Relaxation Tools

Often people find that it is helpful to use different strategies to calm the mind and the body when they are under distress. These strategies are not a replacement for finding long-term help and support for managing symptoms of trauma, but they can be helpful in the moment to manage any heightened emotions or reactions you may be experiencing due to the content of the conference.

 

For each of these strategies some people find it helpful to repeat until they feel more centered, calm, and/or relaxed. For others, they find it more helpful to set a timer on their phone or another device for a set amount of time so that they do not have to think about the time. It may be useful to experiment with different formats and exercises to find the ones that work best for you and in what situations.

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Breathing Strategies

Equal Breaths

  • ​​Breathe in for 5 counts and exhale for 5 counts
  • Repeat for as long as you need

4-7-9

  • Breathe in for 4 counts
  • Hold for a count of 7
  • Exhale for a count of 9
  • Repeat for as long as you need

Grounding Strategies

Being in the Space

  • Look around your space
  • Count how many objects you see in different categories
  • For example, how many window panes do you see, how many lamps are in the room, how many chairs are in the room, how many books are in the room
  • Continue counting objects until you feel calmer

5-4-3-2-1

  • Count 5 things you can see
  • Count 4 things you can hear
  • Count 3 things you can touch
  • Count 2 things you can smell
  • Count 1 thing you can taste
  • Repeat as needed

 

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Mindfulness Strategies

Complete a Body Scan​​​​​​​

  • Start from either you toes or your head
  • Work your way up or down your body and notice how each part of your body feels
  • Consciously try to relax each part of your body as you move up or down with your mind
  • Repeat or reverse directions

Noticing

  • Sit and notice any sensation or thought without judgment
  • What do you notice? 
  • Repeat for as long as you need